'Meeting and Introduction process''
Our aim
1. Hassle free as we will search for your potential candidate
2. Halaal conduct- For brothers/sisters and their family who follow the method of finding their partner in the way that our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) has taught us. (Please see below for further details)
3. We understand and promote that our families/guardians are key to a successful marriage hence their involvement is vital. The final decision will be of the individuals seeking marriage.
4. Insha'Allah marry your life partner
The process of the telephone interview between the brothers & sisters family are as follows:
1. If we have any match we will contact via email/phone the brothers & sisters family to inform them of any potential partners.
2. Once the brothers & sisters family have chosen we will contact the families as necessary, and advise them of the interested party.
3. If the contacted families agree then we will give the number to the sisters parent(s)/guardian(s) in order for them to proceed meeting.
4. From here it is left to the individuals and their family to decide of the outcome.
5. Please give us feedback of your final decision.
Things to think about when looking…
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, taught us in many Hadiths about the various characteristics which one looks for in a spouse, their relative importance, and which ones determine success and bring Allah's blessing on a marriage, insha’Allah. Among these Hadiths are:
Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, quotes the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, as saying, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman; (otherwise) you will be a loser."
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "If someone with whose piety and character you are satisfied comes to you, then marry him. If you do not do so, there will be disorder in the earth and a great deal of evil."
In a beautiful tradition the Prophet (peace be upon him) has given an important point that should weigh with every Muslim in selecting his bride:
"Whoever marries a woman solely for her power and position, Allah will only increase him in humiliation. Whoever marries a woman solely for her wealth, Allah will only increase him in poverty. Whoever marries a woman because of her beauty, Allah will only increase him in ugliness. But whoever marries a woman in order that he may restrain his eyes, observe cautiousness, and treat his relations kindly, Allah puts a blessing in her for him and in him for her."
Please bare in mind that the choice of a partner should be the one with the most "taqwa" (piety). Character is of extreme importance in Islam and goes hand in hand with faith and piety.
…May Allah swt make it easy & guide you in finding your husband/wife, ameen…
Edited by Emad
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